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LIVE AND LET LIVE

So how was your valentines day? I am asking this in low tones because I do not want to stir the demons of disillusionment.Sometimes its better to grasp the world as it is rather than to persist in delusions however satisfying or reassuring.There is true love in the universe,undoubtedly.But its outlandish to hang on to complicated relationships with hope that your partner will be straight with you someday.

Do I believe in true love? Ofcourse I do.If you have ever fallen in love genuinely you will understand the divinity of love.That feeling of deep affection towards someone is out of this world.This brings me to my point.DON'T WASTE SOMEONE'S TIME if you are not in love with them!! Or you are fifty-fifty about them.Let them go and meet their destined partners.Some people talk like they are single,behave like they are single and live like they are single but still want to be in a relationship and not be "single".You can't have it both ways,you need to get rid of your "single desires" out of your system because it is unfair to the other person.Take some time to live your "single pleasures" before you commit yourself to someone.

Its a far fetched ideology to think that you have to stick around people because you empathise with their delusions.Its hard to live with yourself when you allow people to only make time for you when they want something or when they got no plans.You are not supposed to be an option.You are supposed to be their  only choice.

If they don't call you everyday to check up on you or to just hear your voice,do not keep fighting for them to call you.Truth is they don't want to.If they don't reply to your texts and are always "busy" let them be.Its bizarre how people keep pushing to be treated right.Life is so simple and love should be simpler.

You are having a sexual relationship,its been five months and you can barely define your relationship? You are not sure if its a love affair or just pleasure.This should happen only in movies.In the real world? No one should suffer such immense uncertainty in their lives.You have to define the nature of your relationship and if the other party is not willing or just gets comfortable with the tension and uncertainties,don't stick around massaging their complications.


Apparently no one wants to be single.The fear of loneliness that comes with being single is insane.You can easily succumb to the voices inside your head telling you that you are not good enough.  
This will definitely happen if you misapprehensively think that you have to be with someone in order to be complete.You should know that being single is a gift.Until you are comfortable with being alone,you will never know if you are choosing someone out of love or loneliness.

The phrase "live and let live" means that we should enjoy the pleasures and opportunities that this life offers and allow others to do the same.Take each day as it comes.Love and live.Forgive and live again.Cry and live more.Laugh and live even more.That is the essence of life.LIVING.

Live without regrets.

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