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FINDING YOURSELF

Finding yourself consists of peeling off years of social conditioning,to find a self as it existed during childhood,unmasked.Some people get lost for so long,they forget what it was like to be themselves.

We have all travelled in difficult roads and made the wrong steps in the right direction.It becomes impossible to find yourself again amidst all the troubles of this life.

The most unfair thing you can do to yourself is to live under the mercy of situations.The situations that sorround your life should not define you or determine your destiny.Be careful not to become comfortable with your situation,it is not the end of the road for you.

Learn to embrace the situations that come in your life,you barely have any control over things that happen to you.In every situation,there is a lesson to be learnt.Hold on to the belief that there is a reason for every season in your life.

Your life is like a documentary.There are episodes of tears and pain,others of joy and laughter.But you can't stop watching the documentary,you have to continue watching it.The documentary is a thriller,with many twists and turns.But you have to continue watching it to see what happens to the main character(you in this case).You have to continue living life with zeal and thrill because each day is different from another.Believe that anything is possible and you will be able to surmount the insurmountable.No one ever failed by believing in themselves.

You do not need anyone in your life to make you happy.Human beings are unpredictable and incomprehensible.Remember humans crucified Jesus,how twisted is that? So what makes you think trusting a fellow human with your heart and well being will be any better?They will do more than crucify you.Humans are capable of the worst and the best at the same time.You have to find your happiness from within you.Let positivity,joy and jubilation rush through your veins and reign in your person.God Almighty placed you in the universe to serve a unique purpose.Illuminate that joy to your children,your friends,your family,your spouse and people around you.

You should be as happy as you are when alone as you are when with other people.That is true happiness.No amount of wealth can guarantee you happiness.Only you can guarantee yourself happiness.You are the only one that can make the choice to be happy.Find yourself,choose to be happy.YOU ARE ALIVE!Make the right choices.Be authentic.LIVE FULLY.

Whatever your dream is,begin it.Boldness has power and magic in it.

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