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FIND YOUR HAPPY PATH

There are things that I don't believe in.Like infidelity and violence.Seriously,its really hard to just ignore this two and live on to the future.Women have become victims of this two monsters at a higher perecentage but the society expects them to hang on and have faith in their marriages and relationships.

No,please don't tell me to have faith.The shoe hurts and its difficult to take another step.Give me another shoe or I will just walk barefooted.I mean,violence is sugar coated with names like "slaps of love" or "just a little discipline". Its unbelievable how women have accepted this vice and made peace with the intentions. Ask any woman why she won't leave after the first slap and she will tell you that you know nothing about marriage.Yea!you damn right I don't know your definition of marriage ma'am.

Women have accepted cheating,they are not even bothered by any selfish behaviour from their partners.They will cause drama and throw tantrums for nothing,but find their way back like victors.Yea,men know that you will kick and brawl but you aint gonna do nothing!!Yes, they know that after a few days of you denying them sex and not talking to them,you will be back to normal.They expect you to fight for your space and show them that you are fiercely fighting to own them.

"I can never fight over a man,never!!" This phrase makes me so mad coming from a woman.Because it is untrue!! Do you know of any woman that was cheated on and broke the relationship off for good? Its a rare occurence.We listen and accept mediocre excuses and we easily get lured back in no time.The back and forth becomes tiring and draining and you choose the easier way.To forgive him and move on.

If you are a woman,try and cheat on your man.He will not forgive you or even want anything to do with you.You will be damned to even try and beg for forgiveness.He will want to drag you to streets whipping your a** and throw you to the dogs.Why the double standards??

I believe in marriage,I believe in imperfections.I believe in coexisting peacefully and exploring life together.I believe in dialogue and communication.But I will never believe in infidelity or even a single slap.I will never believe in emotional or psychological abuse.I always tell my friends that a man makes no mistakes,everything is intentional.He meant to cheat on you,he ment to slap you.Yeap!!Sorry.

Women should not settle for madness.Deranged psychotic men have had their thrill by hurting the women in their lives in the name of love. This sons of bi.....biscuits are running beautiful women over and over again and continue to beg for forgiveness.They deprive you of your happiness and you fall into depression.And for what? Darling,you are beautiful and worthy.Look around you.See the love of your family.See how happy life should be.Full of love and selfless love,compassion and kindness.It takes so little to be happy.You only need a choice.No one will help you find your happy path but you.Its solely upto you darling.

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