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AVOID THIS TYPE OF FRIENDS

I have come to the conclusion that being alone is a goodluck charm to disney world.Having one or two friends is another charm to a happy life.Sometimes I think people are crazy or I am even crazier because some character traits are unfathomable,they are totally incomprehensible.Totally avoid this kind of people:

*THE SLANDERER
Ofcourse the first recipe of a good friendship is the ability to talk about other people and laugh at their stupidity in a sweet and funny way.But everything has limits!!There are this people who always talk about other people so negatively that it hurts.You will see them hanging out with them and then copy paste the vibes to you.They are venomous!!Such people will chock your person one day and bring you down.

*THE PRETENDER.
There is this friend who is always saying how she loves you and hates other people.Duh!!Issa lie!!She tells that to each of her friend!She can't control herself,she moves from friend to friend harvesting all the benefits and before you know it,other people have unfriended you.

*THE PRETTY LITTLE LIAR.
There are friends who will lie about every damn thing.Their vibe got twists and turns and you can almost feel lucifer at work. You will want to pray for them to change but they keep striking hard.You even start to enjoy their lies,because they do it so passionately.

*FRIENDS WITH SMALL TALK.
Ever had a friend who talks about how someone stole her cup,her pen,her pegs? Now that is small talk.Their vibe will never involve anything like business,investment,better jobs,better houses and so forth.They will continually talk about their partner,about that weird neighbour that you don't even know or about their exes whom they stopped seing in 1910. This kind of friends will make you dumb and unproductive so you better run.

*SECRETIVE.
You are friends with someone who never shares their secrets and all they do is ask about you,your past,your job,your boyfriend,your girlfriend and being a good friend ,you spill it all.She convinces you that her life is boring and that she envies yours,how you talk,how you dress,and so on which is a trick to get you to share more.Friendship is give and take.You share,I share otherwise kick them out of your life!

*KNOW IT ALL.
There are people who know every damn thing in the world.They will explain it to you like they were born with it.They will argue with you even when you are right about something.They speak highly of themselves and their lives and you will always wonder why you are so dumb to allow all that but they will come to you with new ideologies making it difficult to ignore them.Write them off!!If anyone makes you feel small and invisible,they should not be in your life.

If you have a crowd of friends,you haven't started to live yet.How can you  possibly have 10 "besties" and still be yourself?You will get lost in the crowd or lose your soul in the process.Your space will always be smoky from the constant frenzied activity from all the negativity.You will become intoxicated by mixed energy and you may lose your path.Have the courage to distance yourself from people who don't add value to your life.It will be the beginning of your happiness and success.

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