BETTER LIVING

"Its not that I do not want to be happy.Its a despite how hard I try,I can't bring myself to be happy.I feel suffocated,ashamed,disappointed,embarassed,disillusioned.Why do I have to feel this way? I have great people in my life,yet all I ever see is sadness and gray.Its is like there is a burden on me,pulling me down,no matter how much I try to scream,it chokes the life in me. No matter how much I try,I cant bring myself to care about anything.Not him,not her and never me.Living has become this constant nighmare..Its not fair!!Society will tell me to try yoga,go for a walk,listen to meditation.I tell them that this cannot be solved by meditation,its a disease that has gone too deep into my soul.I can't get it out!!I just can't.Every time I try to explain,I am met with blind hesitation. People ask "Why are you always so sad?" I tell them I don't know.I don't know!!What I do know is that I wake up every morning feeling like shit and that has become ...

"Our time is limited...don't waste it living someone else's life " steve jobs " When I was young,all I dreamt about was having a big house,a big car and a beautiful family.But as I grew older I realised that its the little things that count.All I wanna do is be alive.That's all.We continue chasing vanity and worrying so much about tomorrow hence forgetting to live today.There is so much power in optimism,living each moment and hoping that the next moment will be as great as the previous one. We clothe ourselves in so much fear of the next moment,that we lose the essence of life.Life will go on,with or without your fear,so you better secure your armor and live on.No matter how much your situation scares you,remember Daniel was thrown in the den of lions,and God stood with him.If you can't control your situation,then just live and God will do his job.That little faith you got will move your mountain. Fear will rob you of your peace,it will limit your pot...

Life is not about avoiding the bruises but collecting the scars to prove that we showed up for it. Life is not about chasing perfection but loving our imperfections perfectly. Life is not about holding back because we are afraid of being judged but being fearless in pursuit of what sets our souls on fire. Life is not about accepting mediocre but pursuing quality. Whenever you try so hard to be "good enough" ,you will never win.You are good enough without even trying.Before you were born,God knew you.You were perfect from the beginning.Society has conditioned us to believe that we must iron our humane in order to fix our material for a certain course. Times have changed.The centuries have become.Decades have streamlined history and crazy is oftenly erupting.Life has become a competition with the existence of social media and filters. We are too afraid to make choices that we evolve into victims of circumstance.We live under the mercy of our circumstances in life,we live ...

For some reason,I think women give men too much power to rain on their parade.It's bizarrely ridiculous how some men will keep on feeding ladies with their delusional wits and still succumb to their dumb ass ideologies. "Unastay solo" TYPE Like seriously? Your ID reads 26 ,and you work every single day and some son of a bi....biscuit asks you this.Its bizarrely uncool people!! You will be surprised to know that such a dude is lazy and bored with himself  and oh! he even wants to pass by your place when he is in the neighbourhood.Trust me girl,he will be in the neighbourhood,and ohooo ! he may be hot too.The worst answer will be YES.Thank me later. "Nicome nikupee massage?" TYPE Wait,what!Are you kidding me!! You cannot even offer to wash your aged grandfather's back in the village.You pay someone to do it.Go get me a spa session dude or sell that Infinix of yours and buy yourself some better vibe. "Babe nirushie 2k nitarefund next week" TYPE ...

Finding yourself consists of peeling off years of social conditioning,to find a self as it existed during childhood,unmasked.Some people get lost for so long,they forget what it was like to be themselves. We have all travelled in difficult roads and made the wrong steps in the right direction.It becomes impossible to find yourself again amidst all the troubles of this life. The most unfair thing you can do to yourself is to live under the mercy of situations.The situations that sorround your life should not define you or determine your destiny.Be careful not to become comfortable with your situation,it is not the end of the road for you. Learn to embrace the situations that come in your life,you barely have any control over things that happen to you.In every situation,there is a lesson to be learnt.Hold on to the belief that there is a reason for every season in your life. Your life is like a documentary.There are episodes of tears and pain,others of joy and laughter.But you ca...

Getting the right eyebrow arc can take you a long time and the right eyebrow shape can totally change the way your face looks.There are different eyebrow shapes for different face shapes. Does one eyebrow always look better than the other ? The answer is YES.Eyebrows are supposed to be sisters,not twins. Personally I have come a long way with my eyebrows.People ask me how I achieve my eyebrows shape but I honestly don't have a perfect answer because it has taken a lot of practice to get here.   Anyone can have perfect eyebrows,you just have to take the matter into your own hands. STOP visiting your local salonist to have your eyebrows trimmed!!No one understands your eyebrows struggle better than you.If you want them done by someone else, please visit a professional. Basically a long face shape can look "too long",a flat eyebrow shape shortens the face shape. If you have a round face,(like mine)you should have slightly high arched eyebrows.This will bring out your...

So how was your valentines day? I am asking this in low tones because I do not want to stir the demons of disillusionment.Sometimes its better to grasp the world as it is rather than to persist in delusions however satisfying or reassuring.There is true love in the universe,undoubtedly.But its outlandish to hang on to complicated relationships with hope that your partner will be straight with you someday. Do I believe in true love? Ofcourse I do.If you have ever fallen in love genuinely you will understand the divinity of love.That feeling of deep affection towards someone is out of this world.This brings me to my point.DON'T WASTE SOMEONE'S TIME if you are not in love with them!! Or you are fifty-fifty about them.Let them go and meet their destined partners.Some people talk like they are single,behave like they are single and live like they are single but still want to be in a relationship and not be "single".You can't have it both ways,you need to get rid of ...

There are things that I don't believe in.Like infidelity and violence.Seriously,its really hard to just ignore this two and live on to the future.Women have become victims of this two monsters at a higher perecentage but the society expects them to hang on and have faith in their marriages and relationships. No,please don't tell me to have faith.The shoe hurts and its difficult to take another step.Give me another shoe or I will just walk barefooted.I mean,violence is sugar coated with names like "slaps of love" or "just a little discipline". Its unbelievable how women have accepted this vice and made peace with the intentions. Ask any woman why she won't leave after the first slap and she will tell you that you know nothing about marriage.Yea!you damn right I don't know your definition of marriage ma'am. Women have accepted cheating,they are not even bothered by any selfish behaviour from their partners.They will cause drama and throw tant...

There is always something to say about women,but rarely about men.At this time in history,there is a bunch of words and reference for everyone.Apparently slay queen is a very common word used to refer to a certain category of ladies. But just like woman is to man,so is  slay queen is  to slay king. Incase you are confused,lets see who a slay king is: TRENDY. A slay king has a fashion sense. He is that lad you will see walking past the supermarket and you will like him without even seeing his face. He has a funny hairdo that matches his character. CHATTY. He is always on Instagram,whatsapp and facebook with catchy posts and vibes.He uploads very nice photos,the kind that any woman will stare at and wonder wether he is for real.This type of guy will never blue tick you and he will never miss your calls.He is socially available. BROKE. He is ever broke and Jobless but has expensive stuff.He is that guy that will never have airtime on his phone but has bundles to bombard l...