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Don't say YES when you mean NO.

The  world is full of uncertainties,judgement, fear,betrayal,bitterness and so many vices.I admire the people who have risen against all odds and became whatever they wanted to be without fear of intimidation.

Its insanely cool to be yourself.Life becomes easier and happiness becomes a lifestyle.Stop being indecisive about yourself and don't second guess your identity.You can spend 40 years of your life living a lie,but that one day that you will wake up,hit the reality button and ease into your own being,you will know true happiness.

Never be afraid to speak your mind or do whatever you wish because this life is yours to live!!Be unapologetic about yourself,your lifestyle,your thoughts,your belief and everything about you.You are the one wearing the shoe and only you knows where the shoe hurts.Don't imitate,don't forge,don't pretend and don't be paranoid all the time.Breathe and just be you.Know your worth and you will be worthy among the worthy.

Let people know how you feel and what you want.Be bold by stating clearly what you want from someone and do not be bullied into fear or silence.People will respect you for stating boldly what you want and what you expect from them.This is why people solve problems by communicating or having a conversation because each person opens up and says what they want.So primarily,it should be something that you do every other day in your life.Don't say YES when you mean NO, or NO when you mean YES.You will end up with average,when what you wanted and deserved was the best.

You become the best of you when you speak your mind and live your life how you see fit.Even though you will make mistakes,they will be your mistakes without any influence.It will be easier for you to circle back on track and right your wrongs.

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