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HEART BROKEN?

A heartbreak is more painful than most pains.Its like blood literally gushing out of your heart leaving you hollow and weak. It is the worst form of pain that can be inflicted on someone.

When your partner decides to play his games on you and you end up on the receiving end, the first thing you should know is:

*IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.Their actions have nothing to do with you! Its solely about them and their dirty games. And whatever they were upto when they hurt you,it won't last long. They will wander and chase vanity till it hits them that you were significant in their lives.

*DO NOT ENGAGE .As much as you miss them,refrain yourself from calling or texting them.Don't drink in the name of stress and then start calling them in the wee hours crying and playing victim,you won't forgive yourself after that.

*DISTRACT YOURSELF. It is not your burden to carry, so go out with your friends,watch your favourite  movies,listen to your favourite podcasts or songs,read your favourite book,cook your favourite food, have friends over, go out for gigs etc.Keep your mind occupied because its only human to keep thinking about what they did to you and getting your mind messed up all over again.

* SPOIL YOURSELF. They hurt you because of their selfish games.It is the universe giving you a sign,that you have to think about yourself for a moment.Go buy yourself something nice,go learn that salsa dance,go for that hike or trip,make new friends,take yourself out.You deserve that love.

*DON'T BLACK LIST THEM. This is what we all do to crappy humans. Its the first bitchy attitude that spins in our souls the very moment we experience a heartbreak.This will make you sail in a ship that will keep reminding you of your pain. Let it just be just another number in your contact list.Furthermore you don't talk to each and every person in your contact list.

I hope you get through that hearbreak, I hope you survive and learn to love yourself more.

You are beautiful
You are worthy
You are capable

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